Friday was a tough day for me. I was having a lot of contractions and this feeling of constant pressure down there that just wouldn’t go away. I was in town with all five children running errands and very eager to be done and just get home. Our baby was not due for another 10 days so I figured this was just another “warm up.” You know, those days when it feels like your body is going through a trial run, but then things eventually settle down?
Well, turns out it was the real thing.
We made it back home at 5:30 and I was confronted with quite a challenge: it was dinnertime and I was facing five hungry children, a kitchen full of unpacked grocery bags and contractions that were now regular and painful. So I called my husband and then got busy tying up loose ends! Between contractions (and trips to the bathroom), I made up a quick batch of macaroni and cheese (thank you, Kraft!) for the children and while they ate I got the groceries put away. I’m sure that being on my feet helped me to dilate that much quicker.
At 7 o’clock I put my two youngest to bed and turned on The Three Stooges for Joseph, Catherine and Benjamin. Kind of comical in hindsight that I was laboring with head knocks, eye pokes and Curly’s “nyuk nyuk” sound in the background. I was really feeling like the ringleader of a circus at this point!
At 8 o’clock it was definitely time to go. My mother came to sleep over and away we rushed to see the midwife. At arrival I was 7 centimeters. One hour later, our baby was born. Those last contractions that actually get the baby out are just beyond description. Even though this was my 7th baby, it still hurts like heck and I almost always tell the midwife something like “I’m going to split in two!” The pressure and pain seems almost unbearable in those last contractions, but thankfully, it only takes 1 or 2 pushes now, so it’s a brief interlude and then I’m rewarded with the sound of a crying infant!
My last baby (Susanna) was delivered while I was standing up. It was pretty quick! This time I was on my knees. My husband was right in front of me and so I remember grabbing on to him for counterpressure and support. He told me later that the birth brought back memories of his old football days because I had ย him in such a strong grip that he felt like I was either going to tackle him or strangle him!
He actually ended up catching our baby at the moment of birth, so I guess it was kind of an “all star” moment for him as well.
And here is our newest little one: Erik! He weighed 7 pounds, 9 ounces and has lots of soft, fuzzy light-brown hair. As some of you may already know, this is my 6th VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) delivery. Our first was delivered surgically, but the following 6 babies have come naturally so it’s definitely something attainable and I encourage every mother that I can to give it a go (if you haveย anyย questions about VBAC or natural birth, contact me anytime and we can chat, mother to mother).
Remember that face, because you’ll be seeing lots of little Erik in the coming weeks as he gets to try out all the different newborn diapers and covers we’ve been saving up for him! I’ll share with you some photos and feedback for over 30 different newborn diapers and covers, plus there will be 4 cloth diaper prizes packages to be given away to celebrate!
We are so happy to welcome another of God’s gifts to the world and another little person into our family! Deo gratias!
P.S. I will be picking the winner for my “Guess Baby’s Gender” giveaway tomorrow!
Keara B. says
I don’t know you personally, but I just wanted to tell you that he’s precious! Congratulations and God bless!
Zephyr Hill says
Awww, thanks Keara! My readers are kind of like my online friends, so thanks for celebrating with us! Anne
Ashley B says
Congratulations on a new beautiful blessing! He is darling!!
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks, Ashley!
Olivia L says
Congratulations! What a cutie!
Zephyr Hill says
I agree, Olivia! LOL
Amanda Alvarado says
Congrats! He is beautiful!
Zephyr Hill says
Yes, newborns are so beautiful! Thanks, Amanda!
Jackie says
Congratulations! He is beautiful! What a wonderful way to start the New Year!
Zephyr Hill says
You can say that again!
Terri Moore says
Congratulations, so happy for you and your family! Welcome little Erik!
He is a beautiful blessing from God.
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks for the congrats, Terri!
Margot C says
How wonderful! (and isn’t he darling when he’s sleeping)
Zephyr Hill says
I have a hard time not kissing him when he’s sleeping peacefully!
Julie says
Congratulations!! And another for the VBAC too. ๐ I’m jealous. If I’m to have any more children they’ll have to be C-sections which I hate because they cause a lot of problems for me afterward. He’s beautiful. Have fun trying out all those new diapers. ๐
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks, Julie! I know what you mean about c-sections. The recovery is tough. I still remember mine and I am thankful to have moved past that. But they say the goal is a safe delivery and healthy baby so whatever helps you get there, right? ๐ Anne
Sandy VanHoey says
Congratulations! He is adorable! What a strong lady you are and you did so much during your labor. I am impressed! Can’t wait to see more pics of Baby Erik
Zephyr Hill says
Mamas just do what we have to do, right, Sandy? ๐ Thanks for stopping by and sharing our news!
Steph kandray says
Congrats! He’s adorable! Can’t wait to see him model ๐
Zephyr Hill says
You and I think alike, Stephanie! ๐
Maria says
Oh he is so precious!! Congratulations!
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks for stopping by, Maria!!
kelly thompson says
I just knew it was going to be a girl- oh well, guess being a mother of twin boy and girl didn’t give me an edge on gender guessing,,,,congrats though!
Zephyr Hill says
I thought it was a girl, too – very strongly!
Justice Montgomery says
Congrats Anne!!! He is so beautiful!!!! Happy Birthday Erik! <3
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks, my friend!
Ruth V. says
Congratulations Anne! What a blessing! How wonderful that you were able to deliver VBAC again! So happy for you and your family <3
Zephyr Hill says
Thank you for celebrating with us, Ruth! ๐
Rheanna says
oh gosh he’s so cute!! i can’t wait to tell my friend hoping for a vbac! thank you for sharing your story ๐
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks Rheanna, feel free to share my post and pass along my contact info!
Tammy says
Congratulations Anne!!!
I have been thinking about you so much. I was so excited to hear about little Erik. He is so precious. Happy New Year to you and your lovely family.
Hugs,
Tammy
Zephyr Hill says
Good to hear from you, Tammy! Happy New Year to you all and I just read about all your news on the blog! Anne
Beth Rees says
Congratulations!!! He is such a cutie!! I will be having my 2nd VBAC with our 3rd baby in May and I have to say that my first VBAC was one of the most powerful experiences I have ever had. I can’t wait to experience it again and have new one to snuggle up too
Zephyr Hill says
Thanks for stopping by to share your well wishes, Beth! That’s great you are doing a second VBAC and I hope everything will go just as well as the first! Do you know what you’re having this time around? Anne